Chapter 349: A Background
Chapter 349: A Background
"My ears are getting calluses from listening to it so much!"
Netizens in the live broadcast room seemed to have special empathy for what Feng Wan had experienced, and each of them described similar things they had experienced in the barrage.
[Oh my god, I've experienced the same thing, but it wasn't my colleague, it was my best friend. ]
[She and her boyfriend often broke up, and every time she broke up, she would come to my house to complain to me. At first, I would persuade her to break up, and she would always agree with a solemn promise. But the next moment, she seemed to have lost her memory and reconciled with her boyfriend.]
[I was so pissed off. Of course, I'm not the kind of person in novels who gives his heart and soul to idiots. Since they are willing to fight and be beaten, why should I be the bad guy? So after they reconciled and broke up again, I kept persuading her to cherish the person in front of her, and said that why he hit you instead of others, it was a manifestation of love for you.]
[She saw that I didn’t criticize the scumbag together with her when she was sad, and later asked me which side I stood on, and said that I shouldn’t speak for the scumbag, and then we broke up. ]
[Damn it, what right does she have to break up with you? It's not like you didn't try to persuade her, but she just didn't listen. Hasn't she ever considered reconciling as a couple? Aren't you a nobody? ]
[Yes, when the relationship is good, she might even use you as a shield and make you her control group to show her loyalty to her boyfriend. In the end, you, an outsider, become a villain in front of her boyfriend.]
[Isn't it written like this in novels? What if her boyfriend is a pervert and stabs you? Who can you turn to for justice?]
[Sisters, what you said scares me, but fortunately, I have completely broken up with her, and what's even better is that I learned from another mutual friend that last month, she broke up with her boyfriend again, and when she found out that I blocked her, she turned around and went to find that friend.]
[That friend was more enthusiastic than me, so she found her boyfriend’s contact information and tried to persuade him, but she didn’t expect that she would find out that every time they had a conflict, she was the one who proposed to break up.]
Netizens are even more confused.
[Since she was the one who proposed the breakup, why would she come to you to cry and complain? ]
[Who knows? Later, my mutual friend and I heard from her boyfriend that they broke up because she liked a bag worth 2 yuan and wanted to buy it, but her boyfriend thought it was a bit expensive. Compared with the bag, he hoped to save the money for a down payment on a house so that they could get married.]
[He had tolerated all the previous minor quarrels when she gave him a way out, but the incident with the package made him start to think about whether she was a stable marriage partner. After all, his ability was limited and he could not give her the kind of life she wanted.]
[This boy is quite rational. 2 yuan. I only make 5 yuan a month now. I have to save for several months without eating or drinking. I don't deny other people's consumption concept. After all, they spend money on things they like. But if it were me, I would not be willing to spend it.]
【and after? 】
[Later, my bestie thought the other party would come to coax her, so she kept staying at our mutual friend's house. As a result, she waited for a week, but the other party didn't send a message. She felt a little embarrassed, but didn't want to break up, so she took the initiative to send a message to the other party, only to find that she had been deleted. ]
[She started to make a scene again, saying that the other party shouldn't have agreed to break up so easily. My friend was really troubled. He worked during the day and coaxed her at night. He even paid for her to go out for a barbecue to relax. In the end, she couldn't stand it anymore and sent her back to her mother's house with her bag.]
【So cool! 】
Feng Wan carefully read the experiences of netizens, and then sighed softly: "I am also worried about this, so when my colleagues cried to me, except for the first time, I basically did not persuade them, but just listened quietly."
"But a few days ago, she suddenly asked me for the contact information of my lawyer friend."
"If it was at the beginning, I would definitely give her my friend's contact information without hesitation, but after hearing what she said, I am also worried that the situation described by netizens will happen."
"But I'm still a little unsure. What if she really wants to make a change? Wouldn't my hesitation ruin someone's life?"
"I don't have a bird's eye view, and I don't know what will happen in the future, so I thought of asking the anchor."
"I didn't expect the anchor to say he couldn't help. It seems my concerns were correct."
After Feng Wan finished speaking, she lowered her eyes, looking somewhat helpless.
[Anchor, will Ms. Feng's colleagues be backstabbed? ]
Ji Chu did not answer directly. Her deep eyes and the terrifying ghost mask made it even more difficult to tell what she was thinking.
"Human beings are strange animals."
"She would think twice about those who truly care about her, but she would be deeply moved by those who would beat or scold her all day long and show a little warmth occasionally."
"I know that Ms. Feng has a kind heart. She thought that both of us are disadvantaged genders in this society, so she would help us if she could. But you overlooked one thing, that is, she is a person first, and a woman second."
"Not all women are as good as you think. You can't blindly choose to help others just because of all the sensational awakening speeches on the Internet. Without understanding the situation, your help may actually hurt others."
Feng Wan was confused: "Host, can you tell me more about this?"
Ji Chu: "Before I tell you specifically what you are going to encounter, I have to explain the background first."
Feng Wan: "What's the background?"
Ji Chu: "This is what happened between your colleague and her current husband. After you learn about it, you may understand why she was able to endure so many beatings."
Feng Wan suddenly realized that although she had always felt that her colleague's behavior was deserved, she had never thought about it more deeply and just thought that she was simply in love.
Ji Chu: "Your colleague is Zhu Yutong, she is only 23 years old this year. If it were someone else, she might have just graduated from college and started an internship this year, but she is already married for the second time."
[Wow, the legal age for marriage is 21, and she's already married for the second time at 23? ]
Ji Chu: "Yes, maybe it's a little early, but other people are not qualified to comment on whether she gets married early or late. What I want to talk about is not whether she gets married early or late, but what she does during the marriage."
"When Zhu Yutong joined Ms. Feng's company, she was working as a clerk in another company."
"She and her first husband were in love freely. Even though her heavy academic workload affected her future, she still chose love."
"Her parents were so angry about this that they almost cut off their relationship with her, but by then it was done and Zhu Yutong was even pregnant with the man's child. Her parents had no choice but to hold a wedding banquet for the two of them and wait until they were old enough to get a marriage certificate."
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