After the divorce, the boss tore off my vest with his own hands

Chapter 1407 Love itself is sweet

"Come back?"

Chu Zhihan frowned, thought about this for a moment, and shook his head, "No, no, no, I don't think this is accurate enough. To be precise... your current state is more like a door-to-door visit."

"Cough cough!"

Before Chu Zhixin could even swallow a drop of his saliva, he was choked by Chu Zhihan's words. He held his forehead speechlessly and said, "You two really have extraordinary imaginations."

Obviously, she and Baili Chengfeng had a pure and innocent relationship, but they made it seem like they were deeply bound by the combination of one 'returning home' and the other 'visiting'. She just wanted to find a place to hide.

"Come to the door?"

Baili Chengfeng raised his eyebrows, obviously not very satisfied with this statement, "I am the only son of the Baili family. If I go to the Chu family, I think my grandfather will go crazy, right?"

"Then I won't go."

Chu Zhihan did not try to persuade her at all, and said straightforwardly: "If my sister really wants to get married again in the future, I would suggest that she find a live-in son-in-law. This live-in son-in-law has many advantages. He can take care of the children and do housework. He can have different meals every day. The most important thing is that the children born in the future will also be members of our Chu family. Just thinking about it is perfect."

"Brother Zhihan, I didn't expect you to still have such feudal remnants. Nowadays, it's popular not to get married. When you have children, one will take the father's surname and the other will take the mother's surname. I think this model is quite suitable for Huo Wu and me. As for having children, raising them, doing housework, and preparing three meals a day, that's child's play for me. I will treat it as my lifelong career in the future!"

Baili Chengfeng tried seriously to change Chu Zhihan's mind.

Although he loved Chu Zhixin very much, due to his special status, he could not be a son-in-law. At most, he could try not to marry.

"This model is not bad..."

Chu Zhihan nodded and began to express his views freely, "I think the current marriage market is actually quite cruel. Many times, two people get married not because of love, but because of weighing the pros and cons. What I least want is for my sister to fall into such a marriage in the future. I hope she will marry a good man who is willing to work hard for her and knows how to give, care, and compromise."

"Brother, marriage is not a wish. It's hard to go both ways. The other party doesn't owe you anything, so why should he give to you, take care of you, and make concessions? People are marrying a wife, not an ancestor."

Chu Zhixin complained a little helplessly.

She has been married, so she knows better what marriage is like. Any faithful love, once it is shackled by marriage, will gradually deteriorate and become a struggle for power.

There is never a difference between love and not love, but the difference between strong and weak. Only the weaker party will force himself to give, care, and make concessions in exchange for the stronger party's loyalty.

Just like back then, when she was Mrs. Sheng, she was truly humble, truly devoted, cared, and compromised. To put it bluntly, she just didn't want Sheng Tingye to leave her or abandon her. She thought that as long as she did everything perfectly, their marriage would be perfect as well.

But the cruelty of marriage is that the harder you try, the harder it is to grasp it. It is all predetermined by fate. Whether it is destined to be perfect or to go separate ways, it will go in the direction guided by fate and it is not at all controllable.

"That being said, someone who loves you will be willing to do these things, because to take care of you, to give for you, to make concessions for you, isn't that a kind of happiness for him?"

Chu Zhihan, as a single person, has completely opposite ideas from Chu Zhixin.

He shared the same philosophy as Chu Zhixin before, believing that love dominates everything, and that it is love and not love that distinguish between the strong and the weak in a marriage.

"I agree with Brother Zhihan."

Baili Chengfeng also couldn't wait to express his attitude. Like Chu Zhihan, he had never been married. Both of them attached great importance to the word "love" and believed that "love" could dominate everything and decide everything.

"At least in my mind, if I marry you, I would be willing to be the one who takes care of you, tolerates you, and treats you like an ancestor!"

The man said with certainty.

Chu Zhixin shook his head helplessly, "I believe that at this moment, you are sincere and really willing to give, but you know that marriage is a lifelong thing, but 'love' has a shelf life. You don't know when it will disappear. It may be three years, it may be five years, generally seven years. When love disappears, you may no longer be willing to make these concessions."

“Why must love disappear?”

Baili Chengfeng looked at Chu Zhixin with a deep look in his eyes, which was filled with sadness and deep heartache. He said softly, "Huo Wu, do you feel that you have become very pessimistic now? You were not like this before. If you have already predicted a bad ending before something even starts, then it is impossible for it to have a good ending, right?"

"Maybe!"

Chu Zhixin smiled helplessly, "I'm speaking from experience. You can stick to your own ideas. When that day comes, you will understand."

Perhaps in Baili Chengfeng's eyes, she is a bit pessimistic, like "once bitten by a snake, one becomes afraid of ropes for ten years", but in fact only she herself knows that the so-called love is really an illusory thing. It can be very deep when it is deep, and one can give everything for the other person.

But once you stop loving each other, then we will really be like strangers.

Not to mention others, just talk about herself. She once loved Sheng Tingye so much, and this man was all in her eyes and heart. In order to maintain their miserable marriage, she compromised in various ways and became nothing like herself.

Later, when she had to divorce and had to break up this relationship that she had almost spent her life to maintain, she felt that this was just how it was!

At least, now when she is asked to love Sheng Tingye wholeheartedly and regardless of the cost as she did before, she will think carefully.

When it comes to her own interests, she doesn't want to compromise anymore.

In the past, she would do anything as long as she could be with him.

Now, under the premise of not being together, the question is whether she is happy or not and whether it will hurt herself.

She herself couldn't really tell which mentality was better.

Because, when a person has an unreserved passion to love others, it may seem a little silly to outsiders, but to oneself, it is still enjoyable.

The reason why she is so calm now is that she has long lost the ability to love.

Because love itself is sweet!

If you don't love someone anymore, you don't want to force it at all.